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Couple challenges: 10 dares to take on together
A challenge is a small excuse to break the routine: to take a chance on a gesture, to say a thing you'd kept to yourself, to surprise the other. Here are ten, from the gentlest to the boldest, to do together or long distance. No props. Just the urge.
To grow closer
- Tell the other three things you love about them, looking them in the eyes.
- Tell them the exact moment you knew it was serious.
- A slow dance in the kitchen, no music, just the two of you.
To laugh and surprise each other
- Swap phones for a minute and each show your favourite photo of the other.
- Do an impression of the other for thirty seconds, no meanness.
- Cook a dish four-handed, each taking charge of every other step.
To let the spark rise
- Tell the other about the last time you found them irresistible.
- Lean in and whisper a want in their ear.
- Set yourselves a date tonight, with an outfit picked for the other.
For long distance couples
- Send, out of the blue, a message describing what you miss about the other, and set up a video date that same evening for the rest.
Want a challenge drawn at random every turn? Volupté gathers hundreds, from tender to bold, with a setting that caps the intensity and a pack made for long distance.
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Common questions
What challenges can you do as a long distance couple?
Plenty of them work over text: an unexpected compliment, a photo of a moment from your day, a video date with a theme. Volupté has a pack made for long distance.
How do you choose the intensity of a challenge?
Start gentle and move up a level when you both want to. In Volupté, one setting caps the intensity: any challenge above the chosen level is left out.